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Are Hidden Energy Blockages Secretly Fueling Your Career Burnout? Interview Angela Murray
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In this episode of The Ask Faleskini Podcast, host Peter Faleskini sits down with multi-passionate entrepreneur, hypnotherapist, and intuitive business consultant Angela Murray to discuss how rejecting toxic hustle culture, clearing energy blockages, and maintaining a high energy vibration can protect you from burnout.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- The Danger of Hustle Culture: Why grinding through 50–70 hour work weeks leads directly to physical and mental burnout, and how doing passion-aligned work keeps your energy restored.
- Protecting Your Vibration: Angela’s #1 strategy for staying resilient against negative environments and corporate burnout by actively raising your energy frequency.
- Energy Blockages vs. Lack of Knowledge: Why up to 80% of business struggles stem from subconscious mindset limits, accumulated spiritual debris, or past-life blockages rather than a lack of strategy. - ---- The 5-Minute Daily Reset: How a simple morning yoga and breathwork routine can clear out negativity and reset your mindset for the entire day.
- Merging Business Strategy with Intuition: How combining traditional corporate sales and marketing with intuitive guidance helps small business owners make aligned choices.
Key Takeaway:
"Keep your vibration high. That is the number one advice I give to everyone... If your vibration starts dipping, then you become open to negativity. Keeping your energy vibration high is the most important thing you can do throughout your day." — Angela Murray
About the Guest:
Angela Murray is an author, hypnotherapist, and founder of Arayla, an umbrella brand bringing together business marketing, sales strategy, intuitive consulting, and spiritual healing to support small business owners.
Website: https://www.aurilahgroup.com/
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Welcome to the Ask for a Skinny Podcast with a guest. I'm proud to present Angela Murray. Angela, welcome to the show. Please tell us more about yourself. What is your story?
SPEAKER_00Hi, thank you for having me here. I am kind of multi-talented. I've worked in sales. I've worked in marketing. I've worked in doing psychic credence. I'm a hypnotherapist, so I've kind of like I wear a lot of hats and what I've done now is I've combined all of them in a Ryla. Which helps a lot of people in a lot of different ways. So I can help as I can help more people doing this than I was able to do per company in the past.
SPEAKER_01Amazing. I would like to know how is your uh typical day looking or what do you do on a typical day? And then I would like you to describe your typical client.
SPEAKER_00Okay, on a typical day I get up at 4:44 in the morning. Um that's what time I learned set for. Um and then I'll do a little bit of work. Um I'll sometimes do a little bit of yoga if I've got the the motivation for doing that, and then I will get the kids up and then I will get my Vebun to nursery and then I'll do more work and I'll see clients most of the day. Um and then in the evening, once kids are in the bed, I'll do a little bit more work. So I love what I do, so I do that as much as I possibly can. Um I'm neurodivergent as well, so I need less sleep than the typical person, so I take that, I use that to my full advantage.
SPEAKER_01Amazing! Can you tell us more about your clients and your work so that our listeners would uh get to feel uh what you do and with whom you're doing that?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, um well, like I said, I've got lots of different companies, but um right now the the clients I've got tend to be small business owners, um, and I've worked for some of the some pretty large corporations um in their sales and marketing teams and things like that. So what I've done is I've taken what I've learned from that experience and never use that to help small business owners to market their companies.
SPEAKER_01Amazing. Can you tell us a bit more how you use uh your psychic abilities for that?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Um when I am helping a client and she's telling me what her problems are, I'll have a good look and I'll see if that's actually what her problems are, or if it's something else is perhaps hindering um that, for example, um is she wanting to achieve something, but her um actions are taking her in a different direction.
SPEAKER_01Amazing. Can you tell us can you tell us is that like uh really good intuition? Is that like a channeling? How do you present that to your client? What do you say? I get the message, how do you present uh your insight?
SPEAKER_00Um I call it my intuition, um, like experience combined with intuition, um, but I also offer past life regressions. So if it's something that's like um maybe something that's happened in her past life that blocks her business decisions, um then I'll have a I'll give her a past life regression and we'll have a look to see if that's what's actually going on. Um if she's wanting to do something and her spirit team are telling her that that's not the right direction for her, then obviously I'll say, Are you sure that that's the direction that you want to go in? And I'll gently nudge her on the path that they're suggesting for her.
SPEAKER_01And how do the clients react? Are they ready for your insights or are they um confused or uh surprised by your insights?
SPEAKER_00I am very open about being spiritual. Um it's a huge part of who I am. It always has been a huge part of who I am and how I do business. So anybody who is recommended to come and work with me is already fully aware that if I get spiritual guidance, then I'm probably going to say to them that like I don't think that that's a good idea, let's have a look in this direction. Um I don't hide it and say or try and make out that the guidance is coming from like my experience. If it's not, I'm very clear, look, I've got a spirit guide here that's turned around and saying that they've got some information for DD want to hear it. If they say no, then that's perfectly fine. That's not everybody's interested, but most of the clients that come to me come for that additional benefit. Like they'll come because I'm intuitive, um, as well as the experience that I've got in the corporate world. Um, so it's like an added extra.
SPEAKER_01Amazing. And I would like to um know your opinion about how much are clients struggling with lack of let's call it know-how or lack of knowledge and experience? And um I would like your estimating percentage if possible. Uh and how much are they struggling with um some energy blockages or some taboos that they shouldn't do? Uh what's your take? Because you're in in small business consulting for small business owners. Um how much would you attribute to lack of knowledge and how much would you attribute to let's say obstacles from other dimensions?
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna say it's pretty high. I'm gonna say about 80%. Um don't realize that a lot of these problems are from energy blockages. I do a spiritual healing as well, um, so like that's energy work, so kind of like Rikia, but I do it with the archangels, so um a lot of their blockages come from from energy blockages. Um another lot of their problems come from past life blockages, and most of their problems actually come from back a from past life blockages, and a lot of them don't understand just what they're capable of. They've got a very limited mindset of what they're actually here to do and what they can actually achieve. Um, so that's um I most of my psychic readings that I do are actually like for small business owners. I know a lot of psychics do like love readings and things like that, and I'm happy to do that if that's what they want. But most of the clients that come to meet are looking for spiritual guidance to help them move their business.
SPEAKER_01Um how you we we we talked just about business right now. How um how important is for business people, especially small business owners, um, to have their health and social life healthy and to remove their blockages on their health and social life in order for them to be able to do business?
SPEAKER_00Massively important. It's massively important if you're if you're stuck with a lot of negativity around about you and you're going to meet a new client, they're going to pick up on that. So they're going to assume that that's who you are as a business owner. Instead, they're actually getting to know you for your energy. Um, they'll be picking up on a lot of the spiritual debris that's in your aura, for example, and that will obviously cause doubt in their mind at a time when you need them to have no doubt that you're the person that they want to work with.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Um, I I agree. I I share a similar point of view, but I would like to ask you uh uh another thing that I'm interested in. Uh, in our today's society where hustle culture is so important, I would like to uh get your point of view on how important is the hustle in the business and how important is to uh understand energy blockages. What is more important for you to hustle a lot and work all the time that we have uh and like work 50-70 hours a week, or it's more important that we understand uh where are our energy blockages and work on those?
SPEAKER_00I I really dislike hustle culture. I I came through the corporate world and everything about the corporate world is do it more, do more, do more, and then people end up burnt out and they're like, Oh, how did that happen? Um I really dislike hustle culture. If you are in a career that you're gonna end up if you're in a career where you are having a hustle, hustle, hustle, that's not a career for you, and that's what I personally believe. Um the like I work a lot hours a week, but it doesn't feel like work. I love what I do, and if I get bored to doing one type of work, then I'll move on to a different type of work. For example, if I'm bored doing psychic readings all the time, I move on and do sales, you know. So that variety helps me keep my energy blockages away because I'm constantly doing something I'm passionate about and joy, and that keeps my energy vibration pretty high. Um for the the vast majority of people they don't understand or like they're they've never been made aware of like how detrimental hustle culture actually is, um so that's why when they teach a certain point in their life, they just they can't do it anymore, like they physically cannot bring themselves to do it anymore, and that's when burnout happens. Um I get weekly you when possible, I get a weekly weekly session done, um, and that's my me time to help me keep my energy vibration high, but also to help me relax and and and just focus on nothing, really. Um that is vitally important to me as part of my business. Like I do a lot of different work with a lot of different people, and uh that I take on a lot of their energies as well, so I need to like get rid of that, and that's where the the RIK session comes in because it helps me to clear out everybody else's spiritual debris that I've attracted throughout the week.
SPEAKER_01What's your number one advice for your clients how to avoid uh burnout, especially if they are somehow in a corporate setup?
SPEAKER_00Take care of your vibration, keep your vibration high. That is the number one advice I gave to everyone, because that is everything. If your vibration starts dipping, then you become open to negativity. You start attracting the wrong types of people who can have a really serious negative impact on your life. Um, if your vibration's high, then you'll either you won't attract the people or they will be repelled away, or your spirit team will guide them away from you, but you need to do your part in that by keeping the energy vibration high. So before like going into work, even just saying a a little prayer to whatever divinity, divine um being that you believe in. If you don't, the universe is fine. I see universe a lot, and I pray to the universe quite a lot. Um, but keeping your your energy vibration high, that's probably the most important thing that you can do throughout your day, whether you're in burnout, stuck in a career that you can't get out of. You know, that's it's important.
SPEAKER_01What's your number one exercise to motivate our vibration?
SPEAKER_00Um physical exercise is probably yoga. I love to use that and just stretch out all the negativity and like breathe out and breathe in positive energy in that.
SPEAKER_01So uh how often should we do yoga in order to keep our vibration high?
SPEAKER_00Well, I try and do it every morning, so maybe around about 5 am in the morning after I've woke up and like got myself a bed, I'll do a little bit of yoga. I don't do like a full hour worthy yoga. I'm a single mum with three kids in 13 businesses, so I don't have time for a full hour of yoga, but even five, ten minutes can make all the difference to your mindset, so that's important to do that.
SPEAKER_01Amazing. Uh before we conclude, can you please tell our listeners where they can get in touch with you, where they can read more about your work, and how to um get more the intuitive insight in their business?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, um all my companies are all on one website. So if you go to aryla.com and look on our brands, the main in the menu um under our brands, that's where all my companies are. Whatever suits you, whatever you feel called to look into, then that's one for you. I've grouped them in a like lifestyle or business or like um like family things in that to make it easier for people. Um the company Orila Psychics is where you'll be able to get psychic greetings, past life regressions, and spiritual healing. Um there's also Aryla Marketing or Arila Business if you're looking for help with your small business, um, and a whole lot of other companies as well. So I'm um obviously I'm I'm an author as well, so like some of my books are advertised in Aryla books as well, so you can learn more about me or learn the tools that I use to help my clients. If you're on a low budget, you're still got help there.
SPEAKER_01So uh which book should we start with?
SPEAKER_00Well, this week I am just about to um launch Marketing Shouldn't It Be This Hard. Um it's working title right now because I don't know if that'll be available on Amazon, but um on Arila Marketing, I'll be advertising the marketing book, and in there there's something like 20 different marketing tools. So if you're struggling with um getting visibility for your company or making sales or anything like that, then there's a lot of tools in that book to help you.
SPEAKER_01Angela, thank you for all these insights. Thank you for your amazing work, and thank you for being my guest tonight.
SPEAKER_00Thank you very much for having me. It's been a pleasure.
